Personal Post: Revealing the Mystery behind this Lifestyle Blogger



Ironically, as I sit to write this post at a cafe in the JBR Walk, at a table nearby sits a family from my country. They remind me of the life that i had left behind in the summer of 2009…a decision that I take pride in making – despite all the challenges, confusions and compromises that came with it.


Today’s post is a sequel to my previous personal post about my lonely single life…it is also the first in a series of personal posts that I aim to publish on a weekly basis as part of my new blogging schedule. I would like to start by thanking everyone who commented on that post and expressed their concern by sharing their views and opinions from personal experiences. Your care and support is highly appreciated and I’m truly blessed to have loyal and genuine fans and friends.

Publishing that post actually helped me greatly in understanding some of the reasons behind my single status at this age (check my About page for a clue). The answers came from my supportive followers, and they clarified a lot of the confusion surrounding this topic. Basically, the comments and discussions brought to my attention a very important point; the fact that I need to sort out my own life before I can be ready for any commitment. What this means is that prior to thinking about being in a serious relationship with anyone, I need to achieve some personal career goals and reach more advanced levels in the personal, career and financial areas of my life.

This is not to say that I have been lounging around the house (or city in my case) for the past couple of years. I simply chose to change careers into a not so easy field – journalism – at a not so great time – world recession. Add to that, my illusions and high expectations of thinking that I had super powers and would be able to reach that goal without going back to school!

Fast forward four years later and endless trails and errors, I enroll at University to take an undergraduate course in journalism.

A decision that I am proud to take.


Now how is getting a degree in journalism and becoming successful relate to my single status? Simply said, getting a degree from an International University and then aiming to become successful career wise and financially should inevitably attract the right kind of men my way. Plus, when I’m more happy and comfortable in my own skin, I will undoubtedly emit positive vibes that will attract decent and successful men, not push them away…

So for now, focusing on my education and blog seem to be the right thing to do, for various reasons.

Not that I had been doing anything different really…I just wanted to write this post as a justification for my obsessive compulsive blogging behavior and to provide a clear explanation for my followers and friends!

The next time you find me preoccupied with my next blog post, or glued to my i-phone updating my blog’s Facebook Page, you’ll understand that I now have legitimate reasons for my compulsive blogging habits. And you will realize the long-term vision and reasoning behind my eternally “busy” state of mind!

Another enlightening conversation that I recently had with my American friend who labels me as “blog crazy” confirmed the comments from my followers on the subject…while in the Arab and Eastern culture generally, it’s agreed on that the man’s role in the relationship is to provide for the family, this is definitely not the case in the Western social system. My friend summed it up as: “what can you bring to the relationship?”. And that is exactly the missing element in my story. Since I come from a Middle-eastern background, I was always accustomed to having my father support me throughout the different stages of my life. Yes, I was working at some point when I was living in Saudi, and at that time I was capable of supporting myself. But once I have decided to change careers, things have taken a different turn.

Many people have told me to take it easy and to “not blog too much” or “work too hard”, but without knowing the main goals behind my commitment, they can’t be blamed, can they?

Apart from finding a partner and realizing my career goals, becoming financially independent will help me detach from my family. Which is one of the main goals of my life. Why would I want to do that, you may ask…I think we can leave that for another post 🙂


Will I progress from being a somewhat pampered and spoiled GCC born and raised brat to the successful and financially independent journalist and blogger that I aspire to be?


At least when I finally reach my goal and realize my dream, I can proudly and firmly say that I did it all by myself…and most importantly; that along the process, I managed to live two widely and extremely diverse lives…


Thank you to Pink Pepper Photography for the fabulous images!



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Nada Al Ghowainim

I am a 30-something Dubai-based Saudi female lifestyle blogger and writer. I am on an endless journey of self-discovery and self-development. Learn More About Me

6 thoughts on “Personal Post: Revealing the Mystery behind this Lifestyle Blogger”

  1. Love that picture at the end.
    As for transforming from a pampered GCC girl to an independent woman, I’m thinking… of that Friends episode where Rachel cuts up her dad’s credit cards and finally becomes.. a Woman.  lol xx

  2. When you are successful and independent, you wont feel lonely and also, success of yours shouldnt attract a man towards you. A man should love you for what you are, what  your thoughts are. He shouldnt love you for your social status is and also see what he can get benefit from a relationship. Right now, your priorities are to become financially independent and learn/get experience in the field of Journalism. Journalism is not a simple things, its a very very powerful tool which brings the truth in front of the whole world. there will be lot may restrictions/pressures on your way, as the people in power doesnt want you to show the real things. So, it will be a testing phase to see how you handle the pressures and stand for the right thing.

  3. Nada I just came across your blog. You are doing an awesome job!! I was feeling low since yesterday but your blog has pumped me a great deal,Thanks alot. I must say You are a “woman of substance.” What I particularly liked about you is you are quite comfortable in your skin, you openly talk about your age which most of us girls do not because of external pressure. I wish you all the best and please keep writing. Now I fully intend to start blogging myself .

  4. AsmaAlyAww Asma, thank you so much for the sweet words! I’m so glad to know that my blog has helped uplift your mood! Yes, we must follow our own views and perspectives on things…It’s sometimes difficult to go against society and culture’s expectations and pressures, but we must always try to create our own vision and follow it through 🙂  Thanks for the lovely wishes, your support means a lot to me! I also feel discouraged and get my lows, but then we all have to move on, because the lows are part of life too.  All the best in your blogging journey and do give me a shout if you need anything! XXX

  5. HafeezZafar Thanks for the comment Hafeez! I actually still need to read your previous comment on another blog post. This University course doesn’t leave much time for me to do anything.
    Yes, I agree. I hope that things will get better once I’m done with the course.
    I will check the other comment and reply to it soon!

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